Pamela Anderson and her exes, here we go” When it comes to Sunday’s skirmish between ex-husbands Tommy Lee and Kid Rock during Alicia Keys’ performance at the 2007 MTV Video Music Awards, Pam says she’s ”staying out of it.” The perpetually blond bombshell visited “The Ellen DeGeneres Show” on Wednesday, and was asked about the rockers’ public punch-fest. Pamela said she isn’t picking sides and was not present for the scrap, which security guards quickly broke up. “As soon as I left, meow!” she said. “They all went after each other.”

Ellen pointed out that, during Anderson’s previous appearance on the program, she had said Lee and Rock didn’t get along. “Can ya tell?” Pammy remarked. Ellen was also curious about Anderson’s seemingly cozy relationship with Tommy, with whom she has two children, Brandon, 11, and Dylan, 9. During the VMAs, Pam was seen playfully sitting on Lee’s lap.

“He pulled me on his lap and spanked my butt,” she revealed. “What are you going to do? Boys.” Pam said she wasn’t sure what inspired her more recent ex, Kid Rock, to punch her first husband, at which Ellen speculated, “Could it have been over me?” Anderson added that she’d like to distance herself from the growing feud and that she has moved on relationship-wise.

She said she’s dating a professional poker player, although she wouldn’t identify him by name. “I fell in love,” Anderson cooed. “It’s so romantic. It’s romance.”