Some wives would be furious if their exes went on the Howard Stern show to dish about their love lives, but Courteney Cox seems to bear no hard feelings against estranged hubby David Arquette in the April issue of Harper’s Bazaar.

“You can’t really get mad at David because he’s not a malicious person,” the actress stated. “He was dealing with things the best way he could. And don’t get me wrong, he was on a show for entertainment. David is smart, and David is also a showman. He knew what he was doing.”

But just because the “Cougar Town” star isn’t angry with her ex doesn’t mean she has plans to reconcile. “The thing is, when you get older, it’s more about compatibility than it is about love. I think it’s more about needing just a kind of peace and stillness. I’m kind of all over the place, and I need grounding. I want to be calm. I want to change a lot. I want to live not outside but inside. It’s nothing with David; it’s just what I’m searching for.” It sounds like the 46-year-old beauty has outgrown her immature hubby and is looking for a man who’s ready to settle down!